There are days when you don't feel sexy - after all, you're human. Our team can help you flip the switch and feel sexy before sex if you aren't sure how.

It's not something we're taught how to do, feeling sexy in your skin. For most of you, feeling confident about your body was likely a source of shame. The purpose of our work is to right those wrongs and empower you within your own body and pleasure.

Whether you want to up your solo-sex game or prepare for sex with a partner, we've got your back. During Sexy September, you will learn how to feel sexy like you are.

Sexy Pre-Sex Feelings

Let us help you feel your sexiest, regardless of whether you already feel confident in your skin.

You won't find all of these to be in line with your sensual style, and that's okay. Take it for a test drive. Try different things and see what works for you. Along the way, you'll discover a lot about yourself.

Exercising

Everyone has heard it, been told it, and put it on their to-do lists, but now there is a real reason to begin exercising.

As you exercise and follow through, you'll be able to develop a greater sense of self-trust. Our sense of trust in ourselves is damaged when we choose to exercise and then find reasons not to. Similar to not trusting a friend who doesn't show up at your scheduled meet-ups. The majority of the time, your mind doesn't trust you to follow through on anything you decide to do.

Being able to trust oneself in the bedroom is crucial. As well as building confidence, it will also help you build physical strength.

Increased blood flow can be achieved through regular cardiovascular activity. There are several benefits to having more blood pumping through your veins, including:

The ability to self-lubricate is increased

Arousal more quickly

Desire to be sexually active

Self-esteem that is enhanced

You will start seeing sexual and mental health results quickly by walking for twenty minutes three or four times a week.

For the win, it's erotica

No doubt watching porn can help you get hot in the bedroom. The problem, however, is that it can also negatively impact your self-image and your expectations of sex. What can you do about this?

You shouldn't watch porn.

Rather than reading dirty romance novels, try reading erotic fan fiction.

Preparing your mind for the erotic adventure ahead will make the experience more enjoyable for you. Fantasy can make you feel excited and sexy during sex since you can create it.

In your mind, there's no one you can compare yourself to, just a new version of your sexy self.

Take advantage of tonight's sexy reading by getting turned on!

Put together a playlist of sexy songs

When it comes to bringing your mood anywhere you want it, music can make a big difference.

When you're getting in the bedroom or having sex, you must have a powerful, sexy playlist.

When you're on top, especially during sex, many people struggle with rhythm.

You don't need to worry.

There's nothing wrong with that.

As you get ready for the night, listen to your sexy-time playlist. Each crescendo should be danced to. So when you're lying in bed, you'll know exactly when to expect the bass to drop. By doing this, you'll learn how to be confident in your rhythm and control how you feel sexually.

Let's get started

During sex, as with everyone else on this planet, you are easily distracted.

There's nothing wrong with that.

However, it can inhibit your enjoyment and stop you from experiencing orgasms. It is important to create an environment that allows you to quickly return to pleasure after a stressful day.

Build yourself a sexy space by tidying up the kitchen, hiding family pictures, and lighting some candles.

After you've accomplished everything on your observable "to-do" list, you can enjoy yourself.

Check out this coaching exercise

It doesn't matter how you look, you're gorgeous. Despite this, many of us were raised in a body-negative and fat-shaming culture. Because of this environment, you have a distorted perception of what beauty is and how your body looks. Self-awareness and kindness will help you combat this.

Put on your underwear and stand in front of the mirror.

Let's begin at the top of the head and think of one nice thing to say about each part of our body.

What kind of hair do you have? Your cheek has a mole, do you like it? Every part of your body deserves a positive word, from head to toe.

Regularly doing this teaches you to focus on the positive instead of the negative.

Be kind to your body and appreciate everything it can do for you.

Get more consistent confidence by doing this exercise regularly.

Make sure your vulva is properly washed

It is often a matter of patience and focus when it comes to female sexual arousal. Fear of the smell or taste of oral sex prevents many women from engaging in oral sex. You are kindly asked to accept any opportunity to receive oral sex. By maintaining well-aerated and refreshed lady bits, you can prevent any odors or flavors from being perceived.

Vagisil or whatever else you are using should be put away when you are washing your vulva correctly. NO SPECIAL SOAP IS REQUIRED.

If you don't use soap, you don't need it.

The external genitalia can be washed with soap. Don't let those juicy lips get in the way of that soap as you spread them apart.

Your gorgeous labia should be rinsed with water after you lift and spread your lips. After lifting the clitoral hood, make sure you rinse it thoroughly with water.

It's that simple.

Keep it classy.

Soap should not be used.

Spend less time and money making your pussy smell like spring.

There's a pussy on there. The scent and taste are meant to be like pussy.

If you need to refresh yourself quickly, you can also keep some wet wipes on hand.

Relax by meditating

No article on Earth does not mention meditation.

Our team understands.

If you haven't tried meditation, understand that everyone talks about it for a million different reasons.

Specifically, mindfulness meditation can be used to enhance sexual pleasure. As you practice meditation regularly, you will learn to refocus your attention on your body's sensations. This results in stronger orgasms and more embodied sexual pleasure.

When someone is going down on you, don't let your mind wander to the laundry. Take a few minutes every day to practice mindfulness meditation. Your results will amaze you.

Put your hands on yourself

The best solution to most bedroom problems is a good amount of self-pleasure and masturbation. Getting in touch with your body will make you feel sexier.

A bit of lube stimulates your outer lips or you can rub your lotion more sensually. Getting started is all you need to do.

Focusing on your body's sensations and improving your body knowledge can be accomplished by touching yourself. You can use it to learn more about your sexual reaction, much like Pleasure Mapping. It's easier to teach your partner what makes you tick.

Here's how to feel sexier

Every day doesn't have to be super sexy. You can feel sexier by implementing a few practices. They can help you prepare yourself for better sexual pleasure and get your engines going on a sexy night. Stay tuned for more ideas to improve your sexual satisfaction!